Apr 5, 2015

What would you like to do if money were no object? How would you really enjoy spending your life?
Well, it’s so amazing as a result of our kind of educational system, crowds of students say well, we’d like to be painters, we’d like to be poets, we’d like to be writers, but as everybody knows you can’t earn any money that way. Or another person says well, I’d like to live an out-of-doors life and ride horses. I said you want to teach in a riding school? Let’s go through with it. What do you want to do?
When we finally got down to something, which the individual says he really wants to do, I will say to him, you do that and forget the money, because, if you say that getting the money is the most important thing, you will spend your life completely wasting your time. You’ll be doing things you don’t like doing in order to go on living, that is to go on doing things you don’t like doing, which is stupid. Better to have a short life that is full of what you like doing than a long life spent in a miserable way.
And after all, if you do really like what you’re doing, it doesn’t matter what it is, you can eventually turn it – you could eventually become a master of it. It’s the only way to become a master of something, to be really with it. And then you’ll be able to get a good fee for whatever it is. So don’t worry too much. That’s everybody is – somebody is interested in everything, anything you can be interested in, you will find others will. But it’s absolutely stupid to spend your time doing things you don’t like, in order to go on spending things you don’t like, doing things you don’t like and to teach our children to follow in the same track.

Mar 29, 2015

Some powerful words on officiallyhappy.com/advice

How do you make the best out of a massive adjustment? 

"By analyzing the situation. A while ago I learned that everything is fleeting, that only change is constant. I've never liked to feel fear. Because of that, I've worked hard to distance myself from the things that make me nervous because I think that fear is an instinct that we've developed to survive. Besides that, I read the Iching (The Book of Changes). He's the oldest and wisest oracle that I've ever found. If you have an important question about life and pose it well, he will answer it sensibly. It has helped me make decisions in incredibly complicated moments. Although, when I sailed, all I had to do was stick to what my Dad had told me to do in the case of an emergency: use the radio and scream "May day, May day," until someone showed up to help.”

Mar 26, 2015

you lie
and i'm in love
with the idea
of you
so i lie
down
while you're around
eyes to ground
ears covered
til you're discovered

Mar 21, 2015

Two Halves Don't Really Make a Whole

Two halves may make a whole but what I've realized about after being in a relationship for two and a half years is the following: two insecure people can't make a whole. Both people need to make something out of their lives. They both need to be active, be happy, be satisfied on their own. They need to resolve all of their individual problems by themselves. And only when they are healthy in that way will it truly work.

Take time to take care of yourself. My friend told me this once. When you're by yourself, you really care about how you're feeling, how you're eating etc. It's important to establish this or else you'll never be able to inspire the person you're with. You'll never be able to be inspired by them. There's nothing more unfulfilling than that.
To be honest, I don't think I would've created the Happy Blog if I hadn't had THIS blog for 5 years.

The Happy Blog is Out!



I don't think I've ever been so filled with inspiration in my life. So many things in my life right now are coming together in ways that I never thought were possible. I finally launched the Happy Blog and even if it isn't successful and we don't get the fan base that we're hoping to get, I fucking did it. I literally put my vulnerability on the line and released something that I thought could have an impact on other people the same way that it did on me.

The feedback I've been getting is incredible.
"What's this happy blog thing? One of the best pages I've ever been invited to hahaha."
"Who are your friends? They sound so so chill. Like genuinely one of the coolest concepts I've ever heard of."
"It looks so good Pao."
"Your project is dope. Big fan. Your whole wall is posts of the Happy Blog :)"
"I invited my friends to the page and I realized, who wouldn't want to join something with the name 'The Happy Blog?''"
"If people reject, I'll reinvite them. I have a good feeling about your blog :)"

Thank you so much everyone!! You guys made my day yesterday. I have never been so happy in my life (irony is real). This project has been in my head for way too long and all I wanted to do was just get it out to share it!

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