Two Halves Don't Really Make a Whole

Two halves may make a whole but what I've realized about after being in a relationship for two and a half years is the following: two insecure people can't make a whole. Both people need to make something out of their lives. They both need to be active, be happy, be satisfied on their own. They need to resolve all of their individual problems by themselves. And only when they are healthy in that way will it truly work.

Take time to take care of yourself. My friend told me this once. When you're by yourself, you really care about how you're feeling, how you're eating etc. It's important to establish this or else you'll never be able to inspire the person you're with. You'll never be able to be inspired by them. There's nothing more unfulfilling than that.